TwoHearts
One daily question for two people who love each other.
In the workshopfor Android, iOS
6:40 pmRelationships
The people you love are not a someday.
Think of someone you love who doesn't live with you. Their age and how often you see them light the visits ahead along the path.
About 100 more visits.Past eighty-five, every visit from here is a gift.
They live to about eighty-five, and you keep seeing them as often as now: assumptions, not predictions. If the person you thought of is no longer here, we're sorry. You're welcome to skip this one.
A question for tonight What is a small thing I do that makes you feel cared for?
If you see your parents a few times a year, the number of visits left is smaller than it feels. The same goes for old friends, grandparents, a brother or sister in another city. Counting is not morbid. It turns an ordinary dinner into what it really is.
The visits ahead
- They live to about eighty-five. An assumption, not a prediction.
- You keep seeing them as often as you do now.
Questions to sit with
- Who would you call if you had ten free minutes right now?
- When did you last ask someone a question and really listen to the answer?
- What do you wish you had said to someone, and could still say?
A practice for today
Ask one new question
Tonight, ask someone you love a question you have never asked them. What were you like at my age? What small thing makes you feel cared for?
Then just listen. Don't fix, don't advise.
The app we made for this
TwoHearts gives two people who love each other one question a day, so you keep learning about each other long after you think you know everything.